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jessica's picture

Around the house, do you let it all hang out, or do you cover up?

I'm not one to prance around the house naked, but let's face it, if I am ever going to get a shower, I will have an audience!  My kids are 3 years and 6 months, both boys.  I have recently started trying to cover up a bit more now that my son is getting a little older, but it doesn't bother me for him to see me naked.  I make sure I get dressed right after getting out of the shower, but I don't make a big deal of it if he walks in on me. 

Does your attitude vary depending on your childs age or sex?  What are your thoughts?

MiraclesMommy's picture

I wish I could be carefree!

I wish I could be that carefree but hubby's best friend is our roommate. He broke up with his girlfriend three years ago and asked if he could stay with us until he found somewhere else............... he's still here, lol! He pays rent which helps out alot and he is basically in the basement all the time except for dinner. He's like Bekka's adopted uncle and he's nice so I don't mind it plus he takes out the trash for me :)

Melissa

Blessed to be Bekka's Mommy
Our miracle is gonna be Four on February 13th!!
1 lb 5 ozs 13" to 28lbs 36" Time sure flies!

kac072604's picture

I wish that too

I wish I could feel that comfortable with myself to walk around naked. I couldnt do that before I had kids. Now that my son is older I do try and make sure he doesnt see too much. When my husband isnt home and I need to take a shower I leave the bathroom door open but I try to stay covered up as much as possible.

my son on the other hand LOVES to run around the house naked. I dont mind it but as he gets older he needs to know he cant do that. Right now, he doesnt care who is over he will run around naked. And plus with us having a girl, I dont want her running around in front of everyone naked.

Kijopainthorse's picture

a bit free spirited!

We don't make a huge issue about it. As the kids get older they will develop some modesty. I have tended to use our living room as a big dressing room. When you have three kids to get ready to go away now 11, 8 and 6 (at one time they were like 6m,3 and 5) it was just easier to lay clotes out in one room and dress everyone. I always have someone in the bathroom when I am showering. My husband is a bit more modest but he also gets up at 430 am to do chores and shower. He hates it when the kids need to use the restroom (we only have one) and he is in there. I just feel like if the kids know what the opposite sexes body looks like they won't care as much when they get older because thier curosity will be known. I have seen that to be a positive in big families with both boys and girls. Single sex families tend to have more curosity issues. I can remember growing up and as girls in the family would walk around in our bra and panities, no big deal it was just like a two piece bathing suit!
And now for me I always have some issue that I have to deal with climbing out of the shower. I had talked to the neighbor, she has 4 girls and they were always walking around like that too. He husband just got use to it and then they developed some modesety in late high school.

Living on a farm the kids also experience some issue with breeding animals. It has been good for them to see how life begins and ends. Minimal questions for now, with brief answers to fulfil thier minds.

sunshine's picture

nudity

I agree. Growing up, my mom always walked in her bra while getting dressed. I tend to do the same thing while I'm ironing my clothes for work. It's not like I go out of my way to parade aroung the house tho either. I don't want my son to grow up thinking the body is a "dirty" thing that needs to be hidden. After a shower, I never leave the bathroom naked tho. I think that would be too much of an education and a little weird!!

kac072604's picture

AGREED

i AGREE I WILL WALK AROUND IN A BAR OR A SHIRT AND UNDERWEAR BUT NOT NAKED. MY THING IS MY SON THINKS ITS OK TO BE NAKED IN FRONT OF ANYONE AND I DONT WANT HIM TO THINK THAT. ITS FINE WITH ITS JUST US BUT NOT WHEN AUNTS AND UNCLES AND FRIENDS AND NEIGHBORS AND EVERYONE ELSE IS OVER. THERE ARE SICK PEOPLE OUT THERE AND I DONT WANT HIM TO THINK THAT IS OK JUST TO WALK AROUND LIKE THAT IN FRONT OF EVERYONE. IF ITS JUST US OR MOM OR SOMETHING I AM OK WITH IT.

Mommy Of 2's picture

naked

I stay clothed but it doesn't matter my daughter does not let me be in the bathroom alone. And sometimes I forget pieces of clothing and have to run to the bedroom.

jessica's picture

Agreed

I'm the same way, I do my best to stay half way covered up, but I'm always running to the laundry room in my bra looking for a shirt or something.  But I also don't freak out if my son walks in on me naked.  I just casually grab a towel and cover up.  I don't want him to think he's just seen something BAD.  Interesting thought, kijopainthorse's...maybe if they are comfortable with the body young, they won't be so curious as teenagers!  I've never thought of it that way :)

Jessica
~ Mommy to Luke and Shawn

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Kijopainthorse's picture

my thoughts!

That is my thought exactly. If they know what the opposite sexes body looks like now before they get older they won't turn to what could be negitive things to find out answers. My girls know what their younger brother looks like and vice versa. The girls also know what mom looks like and know what to expect as they develop (the 11 year old is beginning to develop too-she got her first underware type bra! :) she was a bit excited too )

We have a pool too. And in the summer when the air is on I will take the jammies out to the pool and do a change out at the deck(we live a distance off the road-no viewing from the road) It is easy with having all the kids and no wet stuff and no one getting cold in the air conditioning.

osbo45's picture

Not a big deal

I do the same as most everybody here. I'll walk from room-to-room in my bra to get changed if I forget to grab a shirt before my shower. I will sometime shower with our 4-year-old girl and I don't think that's any big deal, but I will be stopping very soon because I think she's getting a little old for that. My hubby is certainly more modest around the house. He's not even totally comfortable with me seeing him without a shirt on, let alone walking around the house that way. He will take our 17-month-old boy into the shower with him on occasion. Growing up, my mom would usually walk around the house in her bra and undies while getting ready and would go to the bathroom with the door open(#1), and I'm afraid I picked up that habit, too, but I'm getting better about keeping the door closed.